First you’re born.
Then you have choices.
First you’re born. Then you have choices.
— Daniel Bobinski

It’s said that many good fiction stories start with, “Once up a time.” Those are words to start a fiction story. Sorry, I’m not really into fiction. My wife and daughter LOVE fiction, but my view is this:
Life already has enough real twists, turns, and troubles, why should I spend my time reading about fake ones?
Okay, actually, I do read fiction from time to time, and I also enjoy a good movie. But mostly I read (and write) about real-life issues. And that’s what this blog is about. Real. Life. Issues. And real life issues almost always involve choices.
This blog is about choices I’ve made. It will offer my perspective in nine different facets of life, and I think the way I structure these facets may be of help to you. No, I’m not suggesting you adopt all the same choices I’ve made, but many of my clients love the way I created nine different facets for how to view and organize one’s life. I’ll identify those nine facets in a moment.
A grass farmer?
You may have noticed the subtitle for this blog is, “Perspectives of a libertarian grass farmer.” I’m sure some see that phrase and think, “Wow, a libertarian grass farmer – he must grow marijuana.” Sorry, I don’t farm that kind of grass. I’m one of those guys who has chosen to live in a subdivision, and where I live the grass is green nine or ten months out of the year. Often it’s green all year round. In fact, the above photo was taken a few years ago during the first week of December.
Why do I call myself a grass farmer? Well, living where I’ve chosen to live (in a subdivision), I’m somewhat obligated to keep a green, lush lawn. Of course, that involves fertilizing, watering, weeding, and yes, mowing. Like a good farmer, once a week each spring, summer, and fall I harvest the grass — but only to dump it into a compost bin.
Seems kind of silly, doesn’t it? In many ways, maintaining my lawn seems kind of pointless. There’s no monetary reward for this effort, and I’m not able to use any of my crop to feed my family. It mostly just looks good. But since before the days of George Washington, society has placed a certain status on having a manicured lawn. Back in those days, lawns were for the wealthy. Nowadays, in most every city in America, lawns are pretty much expected.
And this is an analogy for my blog. So often we make choices in life based on what we think we want, but with those choices come certain expectations. Sometimes we know what those expectations will be, sometimes we don’t. Still, if we make certain choices, we are usually obligated to do ancillary things that aren’t always fun and entertaining. This is part of life. Thus, I am a grass farmer.
A libertarian?
I’m also more than a grass farmer. Everyone knows about Republicans and Democrats. Of course, the Legacy media tends to put everything on a Right v. Left perspective, and we’ll talk more about the two ends of that spectrum in future posts. But I’ll tip my hand now to say that our two-party system is rather one-dimensional. If we look at a bigger picture, we can move beyond Right / Left thinking and see a few more dimensions. Libertarians fall into one of those dimensions.
As a cursory overview, the founders of the United States were, by and large, libertarians. To quote from the American Heritage dictionary, a libertarian is:
- One who advocates maximizing individual rights and minimizing the role of the state.
- One who believes in free will.
At one time in my life I chose to be on the Left of the given spectrum, and later I chose to be on the Right. But there came a time when I realized we were not created to be serfs for anyone. I went looking for something different, and realized that in my heart, I was a libertarian.
Before I proceed, I feel I must qualify the libertarian paradigm. First, being libertarian doesn’t mean you’re a moderate. It’s more about having freedom. Second, you can have “progressive” libertarians and “conservative” libertarians. Because I’ve chosen to be a Christian, I also choose — nay, I am compelled — to be more on the conservative side of the libertarian realm. However, you will find I hold some views that many Christians might take issue with.
As I explain those views in future posts, I will also explain why I think they align with Scripture.
The nine facets of life
To manage my life in balance way, I have identified nine different facets, or categories, for life. Does everything fit inside these categories? No. Sometimes I have to squeeze stuff in sideways. But for the most part, these nine categories make my life much easier to manage. They’re even easy to memorize because they’re in alphabetical order. The nine categories are:
- Faith – The spiritual side of us
- Family and Friends – Self explanatory
- Finances – How we manage money, how we invest money, and how we spend money, etc.
- Fitness – Our mental, physical, and emotional health (including our diet)
- Formations – How and what we learn and our efforts to improve our understanding of things. It can be formal learning such as school, or informal learning, such as gleaning information from YouTube.
- Forte – Whatever we do most during the week. If you’re an employee or business owner, that’s your forte. If you’re a full-time student, that’s your forte. If you’re a stay-at-home mom, that’s your forte.
- Fortress – Regardless of whether we rent a room from someone, live in an apartment, a condo, a mobile home or tiny home, a typical suburban home, or a sprawling mansion, your “fortress” is where you live.
- Foundations – This facet has to do with our community, which includes home owner associations, service groups such as Kiwanis or Rotary, and also governments, both local and national.
- Fun – As the saying goes, all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. This facet includes vacations, sports, or anything else you do for entertainment.
My blog posts will bounce from facet to facet. There will be no rhyme or reason to their order. If I feel like writing on Forte one day and Fun the next, that’s what I will do.
In other words, whatever I choose to write about, I’ll write about — because life is a series of choices. First you’re born. Then you have choices.
Thanks for choosing to read this blog. Hopefully you’ll get useful insights for living your life. Just know that I will be forthright with you. It won’t be fiction; it will be true. And hopefully, it will be useful. That said, what you choose to do with it will be up to you.



